Neighbours and community

Neighbours and community can play an important role in supporting loved ones at a time of suicide concern. For example, ensuring safe gatherings, following the lead of professionals and raising awareness of suicide prevention and supports.

Informed

Pointing you in the right direction

You may find this information useful as a neighbour or a community member.

Issues with Memorials Flower

Caution should be taken when considering setting up memorials following a death. There is evidence that the presence of memorials may increase the risk of further suicidal behaviour and can attract the attention of vulnerable individuals. 

Learn more about memorials and gatherings including how to safely remember a loved one.  

Supporting vulnerable people First contact

It is normal for those connected with the person who has died to feel emotional pain from their loss. It is important to check in with them to see how they are feeling. 

Talking about suicide is not taboo, if you or someone else has been affected by suicide or are having negative thoughts there are people to talk to. 

Find out about bereavement and support services available, or call Lifeline on 0808 808 8000 for support or advice.

What to consider when organising gatherings people support

Provide information on who to contact locally and sources of support. See Memorials and gatherings page for more information.

Useful information at a time of concern

  • memorial flowers

    Memorials and gatherings

    When someone close to us passes away suddenly, our natural reaction is of shock, disbelief and emotional pain. A common reaction is to want to do something to remember and celebrate the life of the person who has died.

  • social media

    Social media

    Social media can play a positive role in raising awareness of suicide prevention, but it can be negative when used incorrectly. 

  • language dos

    Language matters

    It is ok to talk about suicide. By using the right language and having healthy discussions, we encourage a better understanding of the topic.

  • To do list

    Understanding the process

    In a time of heightened suicide concern, it can be confusing and frustrating to hear from so many different people. This information will guide you through the people and professionals who may be in contact.

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