Family and friends

Family and friends are a vital support at a time of suicide concern. This page will help guide you through the process, what to do and say, how to remember a loved one and support those in need.  

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Pointing you in the right direction

You may find the following information helpful for you or someone else.

Talking about suicide family support

This is an extremely distressing time for families and it is important that everyone looks after their own wellbeing and the wellbeing of those around them. Talking about suicide is not taboo. If you have been affected by suicide or are having negative thoughts, there are people to talk to. 

Find out about bereavement and support services available.

Where to get immediate help first contact

If you need to call for help or support immediately, the following services are available 24/7 free of charge.

If you or someone else is in immediate danger of suicide or require urgent medical attention call 999. 

Lifeline is Northern Ireland's crisis helpline for anyone experiencing distress or despair. All calls are answered by trained counsellors. Call Lifeline  0808 808 8000 

Childline is available to help anyone under 19 in the UK with any issues they are going through. Call Childline 0800 1111 

Samaritans provide a listening service for whatever you are going through. Call Samaritans 116 123

 

The role of a family advocate people support

It is normal for people to experience emotional pain following the death of a loved one which is suspected to be suicide.  It is important to support those connected with the person who has died. Having the right person or people to reflect the families wishes is important. A family advocate can act as a point of contact to help manage and coordinate communication. 

Useful information at a time of concern

  • memorial flowers

    Memorials and gatherings

    When someone close to us passes away suddenly, our natural reaction is of shock, disbelief and emotional pain. A common reaction is to want to do something to remember and celebrate the life of the person who has died.

  • social media

    Social media

    Social media can play a positive role in raising awareness of suicide prevention, but it can be negative when used incorrectly. 

  • language dos

    Language matters

    It is ok to talk about suicide. By using the right language and having healthy discussions, we encourage a better understanding of the topic.

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    Understanding the process

    In a time of heightened suicide concern, it can be confusing and frustrating to hear from so many different people. This information will guide you through the people and professionals who may be in contact.

  • Help

    Finding Help

    When you’re struggling with your mental health or wellbeing, living with mental ill health, or supporting someone with their mental health, access to the right information and sources of support is vital.

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