Domestic violence is intentional and persistent abuse of one person by another, in the context of a present or past relationship. The abuse may be physical, sexual, emotional, financial or psychological.

Physical abuse may include slapping, hitting, punching, kicking, beating, chocking or use of a weapon.

Emotional and psychological abuse may include constant criticism, intimidation, public humiliation, threats to the victim or to others, bullying, isolation or withholding basic human needs such as food or sleep.

Financial abuse may include unreasonably taking or withholding money, demanding explanations for how money has been spent, and use of money for control.

Sexual abuse may include degradation, sexual activity that hurts or injures, rape or forcing participation in or viewing of sexual activity.

While the majority of victims of domestic violence are women, men can also be affected by domestic violence. It can affect anyone regardless of status, race, culture or religion.

Victims of domestic violence live in a constant state of fear and anxiety. They may feel threatened, frightened, powerless and confused.

Children can be affected either directly or indirectly by domestic violence. This can affect education, friendships or home life, and may lead to mental health problems.

There are organisations which provide help and support to victims of domestic violence. If you are affected by domestic violence or know someone who is, for more information contact:

Women’s Aid
Tel: 028 9024 9041
24 hour helpline 0800 917 1414
Website: www.womensaid.org

Rape Crisis and Sexual Abuse Centre
Tel: 028 9032 9001
Crisis line: 028 9032 9002
Website: www.rapecrisisni.com

Men's Advisory Project provides information, counselling and referral for abused men and men going through separation. Tel: 028 9024 1929.